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Kids attending a Board Interview

Started by sdeniseed
about 9 years ago
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I have a board interview and they are requesting that I bring my child with me to the interview!!! What!!!!! Has anyone ever heard of such foolishness?
Response by 300_mercer
about 9 years ago
Posts: 10577
Member since: Feb 2007

Just do it. Lot of the demands do not have any logic. I am sure you are getting a nice discount relative to a comparable condo for going through the non-sense.

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Response by fieldschester
about 9 years ago
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Girl or boy? Will he or she live in the apartment? Any allowance? Any trust fund?

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Response by front_porch
about 9 years ago
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never seen that one before. How old is the kid (roughly)?

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Response by sdeniseed
about 9 years ago
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Member since: Nov 2010

Nothing to hide, but no one has heard of this. Seems a bit much. Not sure I want to live there now. Just feels like over kill. I don't think Park or Madison Ave does goes this far.

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Response by 300_mercer
about 9 years ago
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ed/sdeniseed, Do not let your ego get in the way. Once you get in, you are unlikely to have any issues.

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Response by bramstar
about 9 years ago
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Member since: May 2008

It depends. If, say, your kids are in college and you are purchasing with plans to let them use the apartment when you are not there, then yes, it makes sense. But if they're young kids still living at home--never heard of it but it is very possible the building had a past problem that has sparked the request.

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Response by sdeniseed
about 9 years ago
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thanks everyone!!

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Response by front_porch
about 9 years ago
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The "child" in the article Jason mentions, while a minor, was a teenager. I do admit that it's an unusual request for a board to ask to meet a teen, but for a pied-a-terre purchase, it seems relevant.

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Response by fieldschester
about 9 years ago
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Show some pride and confidence in your child. Sheesh.

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Response by sdeniseed
about 9 years ago
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I am extremely proud and prideful of m son fieldschester. The point is there is a point where the board is crossing the line. Say nothing instead if you don't have anything constructive to say.

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Response by fieldschester
about 9 years ago
Posts: 3525
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Who are you to judge whether I should speak or not, and when I do speak whether I am constructive. The board of the building you chose and want to buy into and move into apparently agrees more with me than with you. Find somewhere else if you don't like their rules, you are entirely free to do so.

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Response by 30yrs_RE_20_in_REO
about 9 years ago
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Member since: Mar 2009

I think it's interesting that people are more surprised that a board would want to meet their kid than their dog.

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Response by Aaron2
about 9 years ago
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Member since: Mar 2012

If you hadn't passed the financial hurdle, you wouldn't have been invited for an interview. For the board to reject you after an interview with the kid would potentially open them up to discrimination charges (easier to discriminate against dogs). Put some nice clothes on the kid, make sure his/her hands aren't sticky, and have a great interview.

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Response by JR1
about 9 years ago
Posts: 184
Member since: Jun 2015

It is absurd but you knew that going into this. A co-op board has dramatically more power over shareholders vs a condo board, they can basically do what they want and turn you down without a reason.

It will be tough to prove discrimination as they are not obligated to reveal their reasons for rejection. I would just put on a smile and do it! Read up and watch videos on tips (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NKD69xSNw5Q) to pass the interview and application. Type the application up etc. Good luck!

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Response by gothamsboro
about 9 years ago
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Member since: Sep 2013

What discrimination? That she's embarrassed by her kid? Does that fit a protected category?

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