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Buying a condo with loan from a relative

Started by nymrulez
about 16 years ago
Posts: 4
Member since: Nov 2009
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Hi, I am planning on purchasing a condo within the next year or so using a private loan from a relative. I just was wondering if anyone on here is familiar with that process and how it alters the search, negotiation, and closing of a real estate deal vs. a conventional bank mortgage. Some of the questions that come to mind: do I need a "commitment" letter of sorts from my relative when shopping around with a broker? How does it affect the other elements of closing, such as appraisal and title search? Is it more or less costly to close the loan? Do I need to hire an attorney with experience in this type of transaction? Does my relative need some sort of insurance to protect him from my defaulting on the loan? etc. etc. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Response by Riversider
about 16 years ago
Posts: 13572
Member since: Apr 2009

YOur relative should treat this like a business loan and have a lawyer draft a document. Borrowing from relatives is also a great way to cause strife in the family.

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Response by ootin
about 16 years ago
Posts: 210
Member since: Jul 2008

Some old saying about how the person might no longer be your relative if things go sour.

Seriously though, regardless of who the lender is, you need to record the mortgage with the City in order for you to deduct interest expense and in order for the mortgagor to have a valid lien.

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Response by marco_m
about 16 years ago
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Member since: Dec 2008

would not suggest it. will definitely change the relationship for the worse

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Response by Sunday
about 16 years ago
Posts: 1607
Member since: Sep 2009

Don't do it unless your relative is someone who is so loaded that s/he doesn't care or really expect you to pay repay the loan.

If you currently can't afford to buy with a regular bank loan at 5% interest, it's probably for the best that you don't buy yet.

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Response by nymrulez
about 16 years ago
Posts: 4
Member since: Nov 2009

I appreciate the feedback and opinions, but what I am really looking for are answers as to how the process would go forward rather than whether or not it is a good idea. I would love to do a conventional 30-year fixed loan with the bank at 5%, but I am a freelancer and despite having fantastic credit any loans that I would qualify for would be at much higher interest and require more money down.

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Response by Discount_Title_Ins
almost 16 years ago
Posts: 9
Member since: Mar 2010

Do not purchase or refinance without contacting Mike Scarsellato at Entitle Direct (a direct title insurance underwriter) for the absolute lowest title insurace rates/premiums. 877-936-8485x6276

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