Co-op reference letters for co-applicants
Started by rominjn
about 12 years ago
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Hi everyone, The co-op board where we want to buy an apartment is asking for 2 professional and 2 personal reference letters per applicant as part of the application package. I'm buying the apartment with my husband so we're going to be furnishing 8 letters total. My question is, is each letter supposed to talk about what the writer thinks of both of us or focus on the person that they're connected to? For example, are my colleagues' letters and my friends' letters supposed to talk about both of us or just me? I assume just one of us, since it doesn't make sense to expect that my colleagues and my friends will necessarily know my husband as well as they do me. But I wanted clarity on the issue. Thanks! Sam
I would think that if they know you equally well they can talk about both of you; if they only know one, they will only talk about one. No?
There is no standard. Some coops say you dont need 8 if someone knows you both. I would say just dont lie- if they know one, talk about one.
Each letter should focus on the subject but can also mention the spouse. For example - Romingn and I have been close friends since college when we were involved in a university task force on homelessness and these days my husband and I often spend weekends volunteering with her and Mr. Romingn at the local soup kitchen... yada yada yada.
the personal letters are more likely to talk about both of you than the professional ones (unless you met working in the same office). squid's take for how to do that is a good guide. And you should work with the listing broker -- he/she will often know the board and what qualities they are looking for.
ali r.
DG Neary Realty
One letter each from your parole officer, psychiatrist, & 3 former cellmates should be sufficient.
Don't forget to ask them if there's an additional monthly fee for basement gun storage, if available.
Good Luck!
>For example - Romingn and I have been close friends since college when we were involved in a university task force on homelessness and these days my husband and I often spend weekends volunteering with her and Mr. Romingn at the local soup kitchen
Yes, definitely bring up your work against homelessness when you apply for your co-op.
Meh.
The work "against" the homeless may or may not impress co-op board members.
I'm not terribly impressed. I'd be more impressed hearing about how you worked to improve your OWN building community.