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I'd like to think my leaving this board would at least alleviate your troll issues, but sadly. the troll seems to be ever expanding.
I had a look last night, for nostalgia, at the thread that occurred before our first meet up at wine and roses. it was so fun! this isn't any longer.
this board has meant a great deal to me, and I've made numerous friends as a result of it. I'm confident they'll remain friends, and for that I'm extremely grateful. NYC real estate is obviously a topic that fascinates me (believe me, nobody looks at as many comps as I do without being obsessed with the topic).
this has been destructive for awhile, but I was loath (that fighting Irish spirit) to let the trolls win. I no longer care. any victory seems destined to be a pyrrhic one at this point. but the bottom line is that this is just no longer interesting or fun. so what have I been fighting to keep going?
I'm not going off in a huff, and this may seem melodramatic, but like many others I find se more than a bit addictive. this public farewell hopefully will provide me with the incentive to stay off the board. if I don't feel free to heap abuse upon me!
Suddenly I'm reminded of that great Carol Burnett Nora Desmond clip
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKfBCitChcg
I just reread the W&R thread. It's sad. Did meeting up IRL somehow contribute to this?
I had this piece commissioned in your honor AR. I have another waiting for when you come back.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WI_PtQrp640&feature=PlayList&p=C1A3A076B569E466&playnext=1&index=22
sorry I'm kind of on a budget
AR, you are one of the most generous, intelligent posters in this board. You'll be greatly missed. I thank SE for having met you. I consider you my friend, and I hope I get to see you again next time I am in NY.
Farewell, AR.
Farewell. I hope not forever.
From the Wine and Roses thread 15 months ago. Looks like AR's "piss off" was a very early feature.
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse aboutready, I'm in Rome now, so I won't meet you.
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse when in rome...
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse To be honest, I have this aversion to anonymous posters who don't mind have their cover blown. If you really don't, post under your real name. Otherwise it smacks of childish egocentric attention starvation. Gimmicky stuff.. But it's just me.
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse youcannot, if my husband weren't a local managing partner at an international law firm, and my daughter weren't at an ues private school, i'd announce. but a limited amount of discretion, at the least, seems reasonable. if i get raging drunk one night and post something i shouldn't, i'm sure the reprecussions won't be severe. but for the benefit of the others in my life, a thin veneer of discretion isn't too much to aim for.
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse by the way, youcannot, who are YOU?
patient09
about 15 months ago
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report abuse patient09 is my real name, I think my mother may have been a bit omniscient about when I would make my next purchase. Amazing really.
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse at least she didn't name you Elvis.
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse aboutready, again, I already know about you a million times more than I want to. Sorry.
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse Also, I don't believe I'm interesting or intriguing enough to pique popular interest. I'd rather know about different real estate-related services. Not opinions, mind you.
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse then go elsewhere. ciao.
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse Is this your site, Aboutready? Or is it free to everyone to post and chose the topics and posters?
aboutready
about 15 months ago
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report abuse Oh please. You tell me that you find anon posters full of pretense. Then I tell you why I don't come forth freely and you give me some bs about why you won't. Then you post some oblique comment about how you "know about" me. Then you give some lame-assed excuse about how your own rules about revealing yourself don't apply to you because you're not interesting.
Are you implying that I am interesting so I should reveal myself to you, who is certainly adverse to my self-interests?
There are some threads that deal with real estate-related services. Find them if you need to. You are on a thread about a gathering of people.
Piss off.
youcannot
about 15 months ago
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report abuse Aboutready, are you all right?
The nerve! She played the "when in rome..." card.
i never said i would leave. and i haven't left. you'll be gone shortly.
"columbiacounty also said he'd leave"
no, i didn't.
you are of course a great liar and distorter.
AR - in your honor will play "Don't Cry for Me Argentina" substituting "SE" for "Argentina" many times today.
my claim?
you posted yet another lie.
you love this, don't you?
that certainly clears up your lying.
Let's try this again.
"columbiaciunty also said he'd leave"
No, I didn't.
What does frantic searching sound like?
You are a proven liar. Who does that remind you of?
Obsessive poster, distorter and outright liar.
And offended by profanity.
What have I lied about?
Sad. ar, I hope you eventually reconsider, but to be honest, I've had many of the same thoughts in the past few days, as most of the recent threads are toxic and rather scary. It just isn't much fun anymore. Not sure if I'll follow you out yet, but it's on my mind.
How tacky of you conrad to hijack AR's fake wake.
My money is she declares some false victory and posts again. She's addicted.
Although spin (and sideline) are hysterical.
I think I've heard this before - http://streeteasy.com/nyc/talk/discussion/2496-the-sky-is-falling
Who wants to take an over/under that she posts again within 3 months?
aboutready
about 2 years ago
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report abuse I'm sure a number of you will be happy to see my departure (although Spunky, I will truly miss you) but I have found a number of real estate blogs where I don't even feel compelled to post very often, because I agree generally with what's being said (and they're run by real estate brokers, no less.) I'm sure that nervous habit, or excessive boredom, will cause me to check in once in awhile (particularly about specific buildings I might be interested in), but generally I find you guys to be storks with your heads so stuck in the sand its gotta cause some major itching.
New York IS different, just not THAT much. Bye, and good luck.
But since your stated goal from day one was to drive her and others away, why are you so pleased at the thought of her return?
Which of course goes to the bigger question. Why are you entitled to relentlessly and personally attack her?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander?
jsmith - can't give you odds, because I'm sure she'll post again - time frame is the only questionable part of that bet. AR just finds it too compelling to be a would-be cross between Mother Teresa, Eleanor Roosevelt,Arianna Huffington, Milton Friedman (add whatever economists names here), and Eva Peron.
riversider---are you answering for the county or acknowledging that you are the county?
AR,
whatever you decide (stay or go), I wish you all the best
WTF? Did I miss something? Come back anytime. Remember shits and giggles.
Conradcounty, congrats all your se friends will be back now, yeah! What a tool.
Ph41, stay minty.
Smithers, get 'me my coffee.
Spunky gave AR a twist a while back and she left and returned many months later
"Oh,
when you think you're ready,
come down to Crazy Eddie..."
Aboutready, I'm truly sorry that you've decided to leave SE. I certainly can understand how you feel since I've often felt the need to take a break from participating.
I enjoyed meeting you and your husband at the last SE meet-up. I don't know if you have Lizyank's email, but if you do, please get my contact information from her. I'd love to meet you for a cup of coffee or a drink sometime. Best wishes to you.
That was my B.F. posting. A new thread is about ready to start. We have requests and don't want to censor our guests.
Spinny, see ya over there. jsmith, ph41 ( all is forgiven )...
I agree with the unanimous demand on this thread that aboutready return within three weeks. And I hope (or "predict" as you people state) that it happens much sooner.
Vacations end?
lets vote:
conradcounty
about ready
that seems to be a threat.
plus its clear that you are also someone else. who?
AR: Thank you for all the work you did on comps. It was certainly painstaking work and very helpful. Your work -- along with 30 yrs, W81, NWT --was a significant part of the reason I engaged with SE. But your departure is certainly understandable. SE has become significantly less informative since I started visiting. And undeniably less fun. Too bizarre for most -- including me.
say anything you want....its just confirming my decision to stay here.
ColumbiaCounty - AboutReady has, as they say "left the building" (well, she WAS as legend in her own mind). If all you can do is stalk, snipe and be a troll, please join her.
your friend hfs has changed the game.
i'm not upset. i'm looking forward to the next stage of this game. should be loads of fun.
CC- LOL you impotent craxy old coot. Go back on the porch with your BB gun and shoot some rabbits.
i'm neither old, nor crazy. nor any of the other bullshit you have made up about me. you are a pretentious, wannabe. go back to brooklyn whence you came.
Oh, right, that should have been "crazy" but could also have been cranky, cantankerous, and curmudgeonly
penthouse lady of course.
take a picture for us.
how about truth?
I guess this is the way ColumbiaCounty goes through his stages of grief at losing AR from the board - rage, expletives, total filth. Fitting send-off for AR
wtf is going on? what did you bitches do to scare off ar?
Hfscomm1 finally got to her with some nice support from riversider and the crazy loon, truth.
Why did she feel the need to declare her departure? What did she expect, the site to fold? The sky to open? Give me a break.
lucille, maybe, just maybe her taking over the boards and being rude had something to do with it...
I do find a long-winded announcement of the emotional effect of deciding to no longer post on this board to be quite comical. Instead of thinking about why so many reasonable people on this board dislike her posts, she plays the victim.
I agree with riversider, ar will be back posting asap.
I agree with LICcounty, AR should be back posting ASAP.
Hopefully. Otherwise we're stuck with the endless lies from Truth.
Goodbye
Don't you think she'd want us to take her at her word?
aboutready
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this public farewell hopefully will provide me with the incentive to stay off the board. if I don't feel free to heap abuse upon me!
alan, "will" and "should" have two different meanings.
Kind of like circumscion and circumnavigate?
Uh - "circumscion" go around the little car? CC- starting the Scotch a little early?
Would account for his tirade scorch earth policy postings yesterday..
Another asshole with his own thread about himself? This is the ultimate height of arrogance. We don't care about you. Want to leave? Do it. Quietly. You and the other asshole, two in one weekend.
This soap opera is better than Mad Men!!!! And the pacing is similar, too...........