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What about small children and high outdoor spaces?

Started by Fairway
about 13 years ago
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Too dangerous? How good are the guards that one can build?
Response by jsw363
about 13 years ago
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Why worry yourself with this? You won't sleep at night if you buy an apartment where your children won't be safe.

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Response by Oxymoronic
about 13 years ago
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I'm mulling this too. If we're buying an apartment for the next 10 - 20 years, outdoor space would be a fantstic asset. Has anyone seen solutions which could work on both small but also larger (1,500 sqft) terraces?

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Response by jason10006
about 13 years ago
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I had a rental with a 900 SF terrace, and the people who lived their before me had kids. I also dog sat for a rambunctious pitt bull or two and left them alone outside. No jumping off the ledge occurred. The barrier was too high for small kids or dogs to jump over. Now a TEN year old probably could have if he wanted to (it would never be a girl doing such stupid things I think).

The building let my neighbors build a six foot wooden fence (solid wall of wood) between our two terraces. I suppose you could build that all the way around if you really wanted to. Instead of the fenceposts going into the ground, they went into concrete-filled flower pots.

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Response by NYC10007
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Response by huntersburg
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>Now a TEN year old probably could have if he wanted to (it would never be a girl doing such stupid things I think).

You have experience with girls?

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Response by Lany15
about 13 years ago
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We had a terrace in our last place and with two little kids, it made me constantly nervous to the point where I worried when we had a sitter. We otherwise enjoyed the place, but if you are nervous now, think about it seriously. For the first three years I had major buter's remorse. Most buildings in Manhattan will not allow you to add anything.

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Response by Aaron2
about 13 years ago
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Too dangerous for whom? Make sure your insurance covers injuries to people at street level when they're beaned by something your kids dropped/threw off the terrace.

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Response by UESprospect
about 13 years ago
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If the building allows, you can try Bamboo Fencing. Strong, lightweight, cheap, lets air through, and easily harnesses to metal rails with wire and plastic ties.

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Response by lad
about 13 years ago
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Can you dead-bolt the door to the terrace so it only opens with a key? That would be my solution.

I'm extremely nervous about letting any kids under 13 on our roof terrace unsupervised. We do have sturdy metal railings that meet requirements, but it would be very easy for a child to climb over to one of the neighboring roofs, which do not.

Even during parties of adults, I like to have someone I trust "stationed" on the roof terrace just to make sure no one gets any brilliant ideas. I'm lucky that my building is 6' higher than all but the immediate neighbor's, so we don't get people running across roofs, but I see roof parties spread out over 5-6 neighboring roofs all the time on the properties across the way.

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Response by ph41
about 13 years ago
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No child should be left unsupervised on outdoor space.

if an adult gets hurt while indulging in idiot behavior, too bad (except they'll probably sue as if it weren't their fault)

That being said, it is also important to check the height of the railings (and their spacing) around the terrace.

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Response by falcogold1
about 13 years ago
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good reason to be concerned. concern for your children and concern for their friends as your kids age. I'm more worried about when they are 15 hanging with their friends when your not in the house. Impluse supression develops late in some teens. That being said, I grew up with outdoor space and in the summers I was exposed to lots of danger from a house directly on the water. Lots of places to fall, lots of places to drown.

I probably should have called social services on my folks but...I love danger.

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Response by walpurgis
about 13 years ago
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Well, here's one solution - albeit not an aesthetically pleasing one:

http://farm2.staticflickr.com/1086/1474650283_59888154d4_z.jpg

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Response by falcogold1
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Walpurgis,
That photo has a williamsburg look to it. I've seen these cage type structures on housing built for orthodox Jews. I simply thought that they a spiderman phobia. Maybe this is the rabbinical answer to outdoor space and kids and danger.

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Response by falcogold1
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They have a spiderman phobia.

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Response by walpurgis
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Indeed, Falcogold - but it all stems from an unfortunate misconstrual, when a prominent Crown Heights Rebbe's wife warned him to stay away from Black widows...

RW: "Don't you ever let them near you! Once bitten, you'll never be the same & I'll lose you forever!"

R: "So vaht do you vant me to do?!? Build ah cage maybe?!? So I'm trepped like ah boid?!?" Nu?!? So then you'll be heppy?!?" EH?!? ACCHH!"

Oy...

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Response by NativeRestless
about 13 years ago
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Walpurgis...The picture you posted, which all would agree is not aesthetically pleasing, may have the desired effect of turning a balcony into a "catio" which allows an indoor cat to safely enjoy fresh air and observe bird life and other urban flora/fauna such as exists in that area. It unfortunately too easy for any cat to jump over a 5' fence or squeeze between the posts in pursuit of whatever it sees. Plus cats can "fly" quicker than a person can catch them. So unless you are willing to put up this type of structure the rules should be: NO CHILDREN OR DOGS ON BALCONY (OR TERRACE) UNSUPERVISED. NO CATS ON BALCONY PERIOD. I support the notion that people with kids or cats should have balcony doors with locks that require keys--or go for the Spiderman cage look.

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Response by ab_11218
about 13 years ago
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i had that kind of cage for my kids on my terrace. was not pretty, but served the purpose.

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Response by E24
about 13 years ago
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@ab_11218 - thats your problem.. should've caged the kids, not the terrace.

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Response by truthskr10
about 13 years ago
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Kids have a healthy fear of heights. Cant always live in a bubble.
Flip side of course is, what would Eric Clapton do?

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Response by walpurgis
about 13 years ago
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Why, write a song, of course!

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Response by aboutready
about 13 years ago
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truthskr10, that's just a very sad reference.

I had a fourth floor terrace when our daughter was five. The cats probably would have survived the fall, but probably not the kid. But she was a very cautious kid who was never home alone. And the door was VERY rarely opened, one cat got out once but howled and got back in almost immediately. Still, I didn't really like the set up.

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Response by walpurgis
about 13 years ago
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NativeRestless: I couldn't concur with you more. As much as I've always wanted a terrace or balcony, the desire went away with the addition of my two dogs.

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Response by yikes
about 13 years ago
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for the cost of outdoor space, one can buy additional indoor space--much better value and utility--and safer.

I have a terrace which i use mostly to clip my toe nails.

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Response by walpurgis
about 13 years ago
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So everyone below has the privilege of being caught in a clippings shower. So very thoughtful...& hygenic.

Are some at least fungus, so the unsuspecting passerby at least has some variety?

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Response by alanhart
about 13 years ago
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But WHAT ABOUT HIGH CHILDREN AND SMALL OUTDOOR SPACES?

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Response by ab_11218
about 13 years ago
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i had nasty storm windows enclosing the terrace. they were ugly and made the space useless. having your kids run around in fresh air is better than keeping them caged at home.

if i had the money and the coop would've permitted, i would get the sliding glass walls that are popular in europe.

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Response by NativeRestless
about 13 years ago
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Alan THAT is a particularly dangerous (or tempting depending on how child intolerant one happens to be that day) circumstance.

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Response by aboutready
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AH, as long as they are tethered securely I sat it's all good.

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Response by aboutready
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F me. Say, not sat. I'm not used to the mini's keyboard yet.

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Response by walpurgis
about 13 years ago
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As a last resort, you can always hook the tykes up to carefully pre-measured bungee cords, giving them an exhilarating, yet safe experience in the event of a misstep. Wheeeeee!!!!!

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Response by realestated
about 13 years ago
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if you're nervous, don't even think twice, don't buy a place with outdoor space. My sixteen year old jumped from the roof of our building onto our terrace once because he was locked out and knew that the terrace door was open. My daughter and her friends used it to smoke, an unsafe number of people ( weight) on a small space. In NYC the furniture outdoors gets FILTHY. Most of the time, it's not private.
I say outdoor ground level space is better, but that wood make me worry about rats and mice. Buy a lesser apartment and rent a cheap country house upstate.

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