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Oh I can't think about this now! I'll go crazy if I do! I'll think about it tomorrow. But I must think about it. I must think about it. What is there to do? What is there that matters?... Tara!...Home. I'll go home, and I'll think of some way to get him back! After all, tomorrow is another day!")

and I'll admit to making myself vulnerable by sharing info. that is what has made me so despised by some, and liked by others. I'm willing to take ph41s abuse, printers, etc., for being who I am and for what I share. I think a site like this is much more interesting if we aren't all like rs just thinking that there is no social value to a site such as this. fine, click away from your cubicle if that makes you happy about whatever and gird your personal loins. the comm/county duo? the only ones ive ever complained about.

tell us more about your survivor experience.

"the comm/county duo? the only ones ive ever complained about"

Umm, actually you complained about rs in the previous sentence.

"click away from your cubicle "

More disparagement for working people from the woman who sits home all day and blogs, while her husband, who she ignores when he's in his time of need, is the one providing for all those weeks and weeks of vacation

sls, not to se. or reporting abuse. there's a difference, no?

sls, I'd love to see what you'd actually do. oh, rs, you make such a lovely belle.

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and I'll admit to making myself vulnerable by sharing info.

you'll go so far as discussing the Christmas Eve you spent with a toilet plunger

by the way big difference between confiding with close friends and sharing with EVERYONE IN A PUBLIC FORUM.

so, you support hfscomm1?

you figure, he's right?

just punishment?

you don't think, sls, that people aren't doing what you're saying? report abuse and feedback?

ar: Ah, got it. I'm not so selective about reporting abuse. Trolls, racism, misogyny, homophobia, threats, stalking, language, some spam from time to time. A veritable feast of offense.

http://streeteasy.com/nyc/talk/discussion/19978

streeteasy
about 3 months ago
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... If you continue to give him attention, please don't bother to complain about him.
...

how do you feel about hfscomm1?

columbiacounty
1 minute ago
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hit by the second avenue bus?

"you don't think, sls, that people aren't doing what you're saying? report abuse and feedback?"

Well, you've just said that you aren't, except for the comm/county troll.

Another way to approach this is to observe that what you've been doing hasn't been working. See discussions of feeding the needy and co-dependency. Maybe a new strategy is in order. It starts from step 1.

i'll repeat my question: how would you feel it if were going after you?

aboutready
about 5 months ago
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i'll respond when i want to, and ignore when i want to. it's all about what I WANT to do.

i hate your hypocrisy, your need to twist everything to fit your views, your ignorance, your nastiness, your sense that it is somehow OK to try to humiliate and demean someone regularly. there is clearly a difference between an on-line argument or skirmish and stalking, and you know it and elect to go ahead anyway.

but at the end of the day, i like who i am. anonymously and in real life. so do what you will. be as nasty as you feel compelled to be. because that's who YOU are, and that's what YOU'RE reflecting. not me. i don't have any problems showing up to a gathering and telling people who i am. how about you?

??

rs, how? you are so uptight. And of course it makes it entirely appropriate for you to criticize someone in a very nasty manner, although you'd sob if someone did so to you about something non-personal.

you shared that you are a first-generation descendant of holocaust survivors. is that now fair game? I guess so.

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i'll repeat my question: how would you feel it if were going after you?

like with the second avenue bus? you did wish that someone was hit by the second avenue bus, did you?

conrad: how do you feel about riversider's family surviving the nazis?

aboutready
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rs, how? you are so uptight. And of course it makes it entirely appropriate for you to criticize someone in a very nasty manner, although you'd sob if someone did so to you about something non-personal.
you shared that you are a first-generation descendant of holocaust survivors. is that now fair game? I guess so.

Is it about THAT you share? or what you share?
Riversider, did you spend a Christmas Eve with a toilet plunger?
Do you ignore your family?
Do you want your landlord to pay you?

columbiacounty
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conrad: how do you feel about riversider's family surviving the nazis?

what is the basis of your question? are you upset that what he stated is the case?

there is no basis. i want to know how you feel.

I feel great.

why?

What's not to feel great about?

i don't know. i don't feel great about it. i feel bad for everyone who didn't survive.

You don't feel great about me feeling great?

actually sls, nothing worked. ignoring it didn't, arguing when someone (often unaware) said great point, comm, I can't believe ar could do that, didn't work.

and just imagine how f'ng pissed off you'd be at the latter.

I'm not saying my responses have been perfect, but try thinking about what this actually entails.

the co-dependency argument is ridiculous. I function quite well without the comms.

aboutready
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actually sls, nothing worked. ignoring it didn't, arguing when someone (often unaware) said great point, comm, I can't believe ar could do that, didn't work.
and just imagine how f'ng pissed off you'd be at the latter.
I'm not saying my responses have been perfect, but try thinking about what this actually entails.
the co-dependency argument is ridiculous. I function quite well without the comms.

right, you are able to work, you are able to be a good wife in times when your husband needs your support, you are able to use the English language properly without making up words like irregardless, you are able to do small repairs around the apartment like fix a toilet seat instead of starting a lawsuit over it, you are able to calm your daughter down when she has a hissy fit

sls, that was kind of low, btw.

whatever. no one ever said that self-awareness was your strong suit.

nice

aboutready
about 5 months ago
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lies? you have personal proof i'm a whore?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjw1yRKFtN0&feature=PlayList&p=EA8A0B11F4BFCCB6&index=4

columbiacounty, were you and I finished?
Do you not feel great about me feeling great?

English translation:
Do you not feel great about *my* feeling great?

How did you figure that out?

I just googled alan hart. Is this you? http://www.alanhart.net/

conradcounty: Don't take the aboutready bait. It is poison.

It is poison. Aboutready, poison. Will make you vomit.

Truth... I must have missed your AR issue. Maybe you were right. Maybe you were wronged by AR. But, I urge you to get over it and move on for your sanity and the benefit of the rest of th SE community. I've been a paying subscriber of SE for three years, seldom post but always read. AR has been a valuable contributor for at least three years and has made a tremendous contribution to the board especially on the comp threads. Two of the most valuable posters IMO, 30 years and W 81st have almost disappeared because the board has devolved to petty personal attacks. I hope you can grow up and move on and let the rest of us continue to reap the benefits AR provides to the SE community.

NYCDreamer.
You should not be so selective in your judgment.

NYCDreamer.
You are wisely and astutely selective in your judgment.

why not, rs? he mentions three years of being on this site. truth is like the other trolls. she stays relatively quiet during the day when others are around but when she feels emboldened she comes out to insult.

dreamer, rs and truth felt it was perfectly acceptable to question my loyalty to my husband because I was in Rome without him when his father died and didn't return a couple of days early. they claimed that by revealing that fact my actions could be subject to intense personal scrutiny.

goodnight everyone and have a great week.

Goodnight, aboutready! Come back soon.

NYCDreamer: You obviously weren't here on Sunday, when aboutready had her meltdown. It was sick and ugly. Totally out of control. Disgusting, by any measure.

Her friends can try to defend her, so can you. There are many other valuable contributors on SE, who don't verbally abuse the people commenting about things/people she disagrees with. I had no problem with her, even defended her. Until she lashed out at me, in the most vile way. For no reason, other than that she thought she could get away with it. She was wrong.

Thanks for your concern. I'm an adult, with my sanity intact. I run a very successful business, for over 25 years. I have experience with people who manipulate and try to control others. I know it when I see it. It is her M.O.

aboutready comes on here, day and night; to be abusive. To insult.

I stay quiet during the day -- because I am working. I don't need to be emboldened.

Warning to all: Don't take the aboutready bait.
It's all over for her now.

"The sky's fallen over you,
and it's all over now, Baby Blue..." ( "It's All Over Now, Baby Blue" Bob Dylan ,As explained to Bob Dylan, by Chesley Millikin. See the book by Ratso Sloman.)

"Ya' all come back now, ya hear?" (Jed Clampett, The Beverly Hillbillies)

You need to get help. Soon.

not at the beach? the kids are busy chatting with the husband. thought I'd check back in.

so all those posts during the day? they're not quiet, they occur. no mention. of puking, etc.

so, because I disagreed with your absolutely reprehensible position that because I mentioned a death in the family that you could say whatever you wanted and I objected you've reached these conclusions?

Truth... You're absolutely right I was not here last Sunday. I was on vacation in Glacier Park with my family. I missed the event. What I didn't miss was the last three years of valuable posts.

A bit of background. I'm probablly the oldest guy on this board. I live in Connecticut and have had a small business for the past thirty years. My lifelong dream was to sell my business and retire in the City. The last three years I have lost a lifetime of savings.. My dream remains to retire in the city. I came to SE to learn about NY real estate and try to still live my dream. I"ve learned a lot about the city and NY real estate from people like W 81st , 30 Years, AR, inonada, finance guy, spin, Alan, and countless others.

I feel that petty arguments or inane banter have driven the best posters away. I urge you, if your feelings were hurt, to get over it for the good of the board, I can' afford to lose any more of my free real estate consultants.

sls: AR suffered intolerable abuse. She has displayed remarkable restraint that on occasion has collapsed but to blame the victim is unacceptable. Having been stalked by a real life stalker, I can tell you that the affect is extremely disconcerting - something I don't think you can really understand unless you have experienced it. Particularly for a woman. AR has posted valuable info on this site for which I am personally grateful.

NYCdreamer is absolutely correct. 30 yrs and w81 are invaluable posters and are primarily the reason I have followed SE. I think we owe it to ourselves as a community to clean things up in an effort to encourage knowledgeable posters.

I like Truth and don't understand her contretemps with AR but I hope that they can reset the dial. Also, can we please just back off RS on the personal issues. I don't agree with his point of view but it is an important one to understand because it has roots in a widely accepted economic viewpoint. And, he has indeed posted some interesting articles. Everything else you can ignore. It is a better site for all if we can agree to knock down the bile a few notches.

NYCDreamer: You want her? You can have her. Good luck with that.

Apt 23. Thanks. She is over for me.

apt23, good try. but no and why?

apt23' it was churlish of me not to thank you for your support. you do really get it.

*yawn*

Truth... I completely agree with you. aboutready is always abusive and manipulative and nasty.

and vulgar.....

Hello, all late night SE people:

Julialg: How right you are.

It's 12:40 am. We are at the house in East Hampton. Saturday night, into Sunday morning.
We have some friends ( real friends, non-streeteasy )over. Some of them were here, last Sunday, when aboutready had her meltdown.

They are: 3 lawyers (2 male, 1 female)
2 doctors ( both male )
2 shrinks ( one male, one female )
assorted other very successful business owners : ( male and female ).

aboutready attempted earlier to rewrite her SE history. Nobody with any smarts was fooled by her efforts.

She e-mailed her SE friends, to come in and support her: alanhart, NYCDreamer responded on her behalf.
She most likely tried to get a few of the others, but they were too smart, and didn't want to get involved.

So, her husband was out; and that is what she does when she is home alone.
Except, by her statement that her husband was going to be home at 10 o' clock; then he was home and she was still on StreetEasy, while he was there at home with her.

We all will be watching her. This weekend, and every day from now on.

This is for all of the people that she has bullied, for all of the years that she has been posting her "comments" on SE.

She can't handle the Truth.

aboutready didn't email me at all yesterday, nor did she phone, text, or otherwise communicate with me off this board. And I can't recall any direct communication of any sort from her to me on the board yesterday.

Please separate fiction from whatever facts you might have.

And are you saying that a father can't spend some quality time with his daughter? Really?

Thank you for the carefully itemized inventory of "very successful" friends, though. That was illuminating.

NYCDreamer I don't recall a single time that this so-called troll ever once posted on a comps thread. Not once. Comps threads haven't been about attack, they've been about real estate. So with no outbound attacks from aboutready, columbiacounty, et. al., there've been no attack responses either. Funny how that works. And pretty straightforward too.

As for the disappearance of 30yrs, about whom you say you've learned a lot, allow me to repost a welcome message by columbiacounty responding to 30yrs. And maybe you can get your head out of the clouds about who is chasing valuable posters away:

columbiacounty
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whow...thought you went off in a huff. stay there. huff is good. if you're gonna threaten to go away, you gotta stay away.

jsmith just reminded of this summary of aboutready's postings

http://streeteasy.com/nyc/talk/discussion/17818-80-carpet-rules?page=3
jsmith9005
about 6 months ago
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report abuse "romary, again, PLEASE READ. i don't have an issue now. none"

Then why were you cursing everyone out in this thread? Here's just a sample of your diatribe:

"how the f did you take "a glimpse of their living room" without their consent?"
"how do you have a rats ass clue as to why they don't have floor coverings? "
"you're a tard. "
"btw, you're still a tard. no compassion."
"once again you're absolutely full of shit matt. absolutely. "
"maybe one day you'll have a kid with asthma. happy days!"
"do you get it now? your kid can be a fucking obnoxious loud nightmare "
"Matt, you are such an asshole. such an asshole."
"btw, you're a jerk of the highest order."
"good f'ng lord the assumptions here are crazy. maly, same for you."
"give me a f'ng break"
"and really. what an assholic thing to write"

Truth.... Just like Alan, I can attest that no one requested my posts. I've never sent or received a phone call, email or text from AR or anyone else on SE.

AR is wise and thoughtful...

AR has left because of conradcounty and its many, many iterations.

nothing to do with any of these statements she made on a single thread, right?

http://streeteasy.com/nyc/talk/discussion/17818-80-carpet-rules?page=3
jsmith9005
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report abuse "romary, again, PLEASE READ. i don't have an issue now. none"

Then why were you cursing everyone out in this thread? Here's just a sample of your diatribe:

"how the f did you take "a glimpse of their living room" without their consent?"
"how do you have a rats ass clue as to why they don't have floor coverings? "
"you're a tard. "
"btw, you're still a tard. no compassion."
"once again you're absolutely full of shit matt. absolutely. "
"maybe one day you'll have a kid with asthma. happy days!"
"do you get it now? your kid can be a fucking obnoxious loud nightmare "
"Matt, you are such an asshole. such an asshole."
"btw, you're a jerk of the highest order."
"good f'ng lord the assumptions here are crazy. maly, same for you."
"give me a f'ng break"
"and really. what an assholic thing to write"

Vulgarity and aboutready are sisters.

conradcounty....and your many other names

Give it a rest

Well alanhart and NYCDreamer my experience is that she e-mails for support. If not to you both, then my apologies.

alan, not trying to illuminate you. We had serious people over, dicussing a serious problem.

It's done, now; so you won't have to defend her from me on SE.

Truth, I am not defending her..She's been very rude to you and others.

This thread did make 3 pages ;^*

Riversider: No not that. Just stop posting about her.

It's nice out today.

w67th is on SE. We can't figure out what that comment was, but he was funny.

was w67th was funny when he supported the mother who killed her 4 children and blamed the real estate industry instead?

w67th is always funny.

aboutready contacted me telekinetically this morning ... she says "Hi" to those she says "Hi" to, and to those she says other things, you know who you are and you know what she says to you and you know she's right and you know she phrased it all precisely right.

Telekinesis doesn't lie.

So that's what those triangles are for.
http://thereversesweep.typepad.com/.a/6a0120a735b61b970b0133ecbeeda7970b-pi

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Telekinesis doesn't lie.

Isn't there a new technology update telekinesis? It seems so like using a microfiche or a ditto machine.

or just:
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Columbiacounty?